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The Rain

 

It is raining cats and dogs in DC today y’all. And it’s cold as a bitch too. I just got soaked a few minutes ago, and I was pissed off (black people can’t stand getting wet) until I went on youtube to listen to some tunes. Youtube is indeed the devil, but dammit if it doesn’t pass the time away.

Some people say that the rain makes them want to stay home all day and practice making babies. Yeah, I feel can feel that. I’d rather practice making babies in my office right now because I’ll be damned if I get in my car and go home in this shit. But for me, when it rains and the window is cracked a little bit to get the smell of rain and a slight breeze in my crib, I like to listen to some GOOD music (a.k.a. music written before 1991). I feel like listening to sad shit right now but I really don’t know why. I’m in a pretty good mood. And, I don’t know where this post is going, so bear with me…

This morning I was thinking about how hard women love. It’s actually very remarkable. The dude can be the grimiest person in the world, but if his women is in love with him, she will put up with so much. She will ignore his cheating, and she will ignore the man attempting to court her that has all of his ducks in a row just so she can keep abusing herself. All because of her love for this man. Amazing!

OK, true, there are men that love trifling women, but they are usually pussy-whipped (I’ve been there, and it is not the bidness), or just glad that someone is giving them some sweet thang.

But the thing with women is like heroin. I spoke with a recovering heroin addict not too long ago, and he said that the whole addiction is based on the fact that the addict is trying to get as high as he got the first time he shot the dope in his arms. The problem is that the addict will never feel that high again, but he thinks that if he tries it one more time, then maybe he will feel as good as the first time. Then he gets sick when he tries to kick the habit, and he eventually goes back to shooting it up again because he has been in a comfort zone for so long that he feels all wrong when the “dope” is not in his life (yeah, I know. Run-on sentence). Wow, that’s kinda heavy…

Trifling brothers will put on the most beautiful mask in the beginning, and once his woman is trapped, or “hooked on the dope” if you will, he will show his ass. He will break her down, and she will feel sick every time she decides to “kick the habit.” When she finally goes to rehab (usually after a tragedy) and kicks the habit, she becomes very paranoid and she won’t be able to decide whether the next “drug” is good for her or not. Damn…

So, anyway, we were talking about music and rain right? Holy shit! My brain is all over the place today! Well…..speaking of drugs and women, check out the video above. It is one of the saddest songs ever, and it happens to be one of my favorites. Oh shit…is the sun trying to come out?!

February 13, 2008 - Posted by outblandish | Music, Random Thoughts, Women | | 9 Comments

9 Comments »

  1. So true… gotta agree with you- us ladies love hard.

    The weather does suck today. How ’bout that ice last night? My first time ice skating in Timbs… Lol. I was determined to get to the voting polls even if I had to crawl. Busted my ass but I made it.

    BTW- Thank you for the shot out down below. I have one request: the Ladies of ‘5 And A Possible’ noticed that you gave our link my name. I appreciate the love but can you share it with my sistas? :)

    Comment by dark & stormy | February 13, 2008

  2. Captain-Save-A-Ho syndrome is definitely a bitch. That song could have been written about me at one point in my younger days, but I got up and out. Here’s to not being a repeat offender!

    Comment by Cuz Mel | February 15, 2008

  3. Is what you described really love, though? I think it’s something akin to masochism.

    Comment by LH | February 20, 2008

  4. @LH: Yes, but isn’t love masochism??

    Comment by Cuz Mel | February 21, 2008

  5. Love is not masochism, but the “unconditional love” that I described above is indeed masochism. When you love someone more than yourself, you are destined to get fucked over. It’s actually pretty sad…

    Comment by outblandish | February 21, 2008

  6. @ Outblandish: I think that you can love someone unconditionally, but that doesn’t mean that you have to be with that person and it certainly doesn’t mean that you should take his/her disrespect. Your situation above sounds like a mixture of a lot of issues like co-dependence, abandonment, etc. Not healthy!

    Comment by Cuz Mel | February 21, 2008

  7. @ CuzMel: I don’t believe love is masochism, no.

    Comment by LH | February 21, 2008

  8. Man I am feeling your blog today on how woman are like heroin. Also, about trifling brothers out her that put on this facade towards women. Then the real asshole comes out once he has found her weakness. See people like that mess it up for us good guys out here in the world.

    Comment by A.J. | February 22, 2008

  9. All I want to know is a.)Are you single? and b.)Are you looking? I don’t even know what you look like but I’m really feeling you, dude. You talk with alot of sense.

    Comment by Quiana | March 10, 2008


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