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Comment on The Rain by Quiana

Quiana — Mon, 10 Mar 2008 20:19:03 +0000

All I want to know is a.)Are you single? and b.)Are you looking? I don’t even know what you look like but I’m really feeling you, dude. You talk with alot of sense.

Comment on The Rain by A.J.

A.J. — Fri, 22 Feb 2008 16:21:33 +0000

Man I am feeling your blog today on how woman are like heroin. Also, about trifling brothers out her that put on this facade towards women. Then the real asshole comes out once he has found her weakness. See people like that mess it up for us good guys out here in the world.

Comment on The Rain by LH

LH — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 22:32:22 +0000

@ CuzMel: I don’t believe love is masochism, no.

Comment on The Rain by Cuz Mel

Cuz Mel — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 21:21:38 +0000

@ Outblandish: I think that you can love someone unconditionally, but that doesn’t mean that you have to be with that person and it certainly doesn’t mean that you should take his/her disrespect. Your situation above sounds like a mixture of a lot of issues like co-dependence, abandonment, etc. Not healthy!

Comment on The Rain by outblandish

outblandish — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:30:36 +0000

Love is not masochism, but the “unconditional love” that I described above is indeed masochism. When you love someone more than yourself, you are destined to get fucked over. It’s actually pretty sad…

Comment on The Rain by Cuz Mel

Cuz Mel — Thu, 21 Feb 2008 16:26:03 +0000

@LH: Yes, but isn’t love masochism??

Comment on The Rain by LH

LH — Wed, 20 Feb 2008 20:42:37 +0000

Is what you described really love, though? I think it’s something akin to masochism.

Comment on The Rain by Cuz Mel

Cuz Mel — Fri, 15 Feb 2008 16:44:40 +0000

Captain-Save-A-Ho syndrome is definitely a bitch. That song could have been written about me at one point in my younger days, but I got up and out. Here’s to not being a repeat offender!

Comment on The Rain by dark & stormy

dark & stormy — Wed, 13 Feb 2008 20:11:43 +0000

So true… gotta agree with you- us ladies love hard.

The weather does suck today. How ’bout that ice last night? My first time ice skating in Timbs… Lol. I was determined to get to the voting polls even if I had to crawl. Busted my ass but I made it.

BTW- Thank you for the shot out down below. I have one request: the Ladies of ‘5 And A Possible’ noticed that you gave our link my name. I appreciate the love but can you share it with my sistas?

Comment on Sticks and Stones… by pserendipity

pserendipity — Fri, 08 Feb 2008 22:15:02 +0000

I think that’s what I mean. Being born with a congenital birth defect is not being born with a SINFUL condition. People born with Down Syndrome or even AIDS don’t need to be forgiven for their conditions, or any behavior that is intrinsic in them. They can still live lives free of sin on their own volition. In God’s eyes, those people are still his perfect creations. Being born a homosexual would mean that God has given you a condition that makes you participate in activity that is sinful. If God intended for people to be gay, he intended for those gay people to go to hell because homosexual activity (in my opinion) is a sin.

I guess it’s clear that I think that all homosexual activity is sinful. I always have, think I always will — because God created Adam and Eve with the intent that they go forth and fill the earth. Though sinful, they were still created in his own image, just as we all are. We participate in sinful behavior by choice. I think that gay people who use the excuse that they were born that way use it as a way to say “I can’t help it, God made me like this.” God would NOT make a person and not give them any choice. He makes people who CHOOSE to participate in sin and can be forgiven for it. So if people are born gay and that’s how God wanted them, do they get a pass on judgment day?

I guess we agree to disagree….